The Most Common Mistake People Make When Writing A Tinder Bio (2024)

Whether you tend to go through Tinder profiles as a mindless distraction while sitting at your office desk or you’re looking for a serious relationship, most dating app users can agree that swiping easily becomes a habit. In fact, 68% of Tinder users in the U.S. use the app multiple times a week. If you find yourself falling within that majority, you may be wondering how to write a good Tinder bio. Once they’ve caught a glimpse of your cute selfies or adorable shots with your dog, your bio should seal the deal on getting a right swipe.

“A good Tinder bio starts with standing out from the crowd by making your profile engaging,” certified relationship coach Amie Leadingham tells Bustle. She also recommends using humor to make your bio more memorable and pique the curiosity of your potential matches.

Leadingham also suggests avoiding the “negatives'' when crafting your Tinder bio; a popular phrase many people make the mistake of using is “no hookups.” While some may think this approach will discourage daters just looking for casual flings, starting with negativity right off the bat can be off-putting for the people you do want to attract. “[‘No hookups’] seems presumptuous and negative,” Leadingham says. “Focus on what you want instead.”

In other words, rather than listing the things you don’t want from a partner, be clear about what you are looking for. For example, it’s a good idea to mention that you want a long-term partnership in your Tinder bio if that’s true for you. Leadingham also recommends viewing your bio as a “targeted marketing ad” and regularly updating it. As you try out different inclusions and formats, you’ll notice patterns in your matches. Consider the positive trends, and cater your bio to them.

If you’re looking for some inspiration to start or refresh your own, here are examples of good Tinder bios.

Funny Tinder Bios

1. Pros and cons of dating me: Pro, you won’t be single. Con: You’ll be dating me

2. Just looking for something super casual, like marriage and children. Nothing serious!

3. Two truths and a lie: I ran the Boston Marathon, I hate pineapple on pizza, one of these is a lie.

4. Minimum requirements: must get rid of the spiders.

5. Looking for that special someone to help me steal the Declaration of Independence.

6. If you can quote The Office 24/7, we will be fast friends.

Fun Tinder Bios

1. Looking for an adventure partner. You in?

2. I want to know your favorite song, but to tell me, you have to sing it to me.

3. The most important thing to know about me? I dance at concerts.

4. First round is on me if you can beat me in Mario Kart.

5. Costco hot dog enthusiast.

6. Swipe right if you go to therapy.

Flirty Tinder Bios

1. Looking for a reason to delete this app, and hopefully, you’re it!

2. On a scale from one to Slurpees on 7/11: how free are you tonight?

3. Make and send me a playlist so I know it’s real.

4. If we match, that means we have to get married, right?

5. Swipe right if you can handle impromptu adventures and cheesy pickup lines.

Creative Tinder Bios

1. If you couldn’t skip a single song while listening to an album, which would you choose?

2. I’m looking for someone to dance around with me in the refrigerator light, sing in the car, and get lost upstate. Yes, this is all from a Taylor Swift song.

3. Hoping we fall madly in love, break up, then dramatically reunite decades later. Let’s give Bennifer a run for their money.

4. Swipe right if you're looking for someone who can make a killer lasagna and serenade you with questionable singing skills.

Confident Tinder Bios

1. You deserve good things and I want to be one of them.

2. I’m here, now what were your two other wishes?

3. I love me and you should too.

4. Dating me is like dating the funniest person you’ve ever met… and the most humble.

5. Let me know if you want me to message first.

Sarcastic Tinder Bios

1. Saying “Not looking for hookups” on Tinder is like saying “I’m allergic to shellfish” in a Red Lobster.

2. I’m really loving the variety in all the photos on here. It’s like a Dr. Seuss book: One dead fish, two dead fish, red dead fish, blue dead fish.

3. Can’t wait to match, exchange one message, and then never talk again!

4. They say love happens when you least expect it and trust me, my expectations could not be lower right now.

5. Must be 7 feet tall, no exceptions.

Self-Deprecating Tinder Bios

1. I hope you like bad girls, because I’m bad at everything.

2. Not meeting your standards or your parents.

3. Only here for validation.

4. Looking for my next regret.

5. Swipe right if you're up for awkward pauses and spontaneous dance moves.

Suggestive Tinder Bios

1. I’m vaxxed and waxed. Do what you will with that information.

2. Looking for someone to hold the door open for me, but slap my butt as I walk through.

3. My dog’s name is Remi, and he’s looking for a father… I, however, am looking for a daddy.

4. Not picky about how tall you are, because everyone is the same height in bed.

Clever Tinder Bios

1. The last time I was someone’s “type” was when I donated blood.

2. Trying Tinder out because mouthing “I love you” to strangers out of my car window doesn’t seem to be working.

3. Do you like my sweater? It’s made of girlfriend material.

4. Lost my lighter so I’m out here looking for matches.

5. Looking for a good boy… submit photos of dogs please.

6. I'm all about good vibes and even better cuddles. Care to join?

Response-Provoking Tinder Bios

1. If you had to listen to one song for the rest of your life, what would it be?

2. Give me your best pickup line.

3. Tell me about the last time you cried, and I’ll tell you about mine.

4. My most unpopular opinion is that Disney is overrated. What’s yours?

5. Tell me the most ridiculous conspiracy theory you believe in, and I'll tell you mine.

Cute Tinder Bios

1. I need someone to fill in for Timbaland’s half of the “Promiscuous” duet with Nelly Furtado. Trying to sing both by myself is getting really exhausting.

2. Looking for the pepperoni to my pizza, the peanut butter to my jelly, the cheese to my crackers. Oh dang… now I’m hungry.

3. I may not be the best cook, but I know how to whip up a great order with Uber Eats. Satisfaction guaranteed.

4. Now taking applications for a boyfriend. Must be certified in cuddling and telling me I’m pretty. Swipe right to inquire within.

5. I’m going to Trader Joe’s, want me to pick you up anything?

Silly Tinder Bios

1. I'm not a photographer, but I can pretty much picture us together... in matching unicorn onesies.

2. I’m searching for someone to share (some of) my snacks with.

3. Swipe right if you can handle my puns. They're so bad, they're gouda... or maybe just bad.

4. I’m currently accepting applications for a partner in crime to help me finish all the pizza I just DoorDashed for myself.

5. If you can't laugh at yourself, I probably will. Wait, no I definitely will.

Thought-Provoking Tinder Bios

1. Why don’t we skip the small talk and discuss the big stuff: Is a hamburger a sandwich?

2. I want someone who can introduce me to new perspectives. Try it.

3. Swipe right if you feel strongly about the Oxford comma, because I do, and it matters.

4. Interested in deep convos about everything from quantum physics to the meaning of life.

5. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, who would it be and why?

Simple Tinder Bios

1. Passionate about books, matcha, and days with zero plans.

2. Obsessed with cooking and trying whatever new recipes TikTok tells me to make.

3. Movie fanatic with a soft spot for indie films.

4. Music lover who's always searching for the next great song.

5. Fitness enthusiast who enjoys running outside and the occasional pilates session.

Quirky Tinder Bios

1. Looking for someone who laughs at their own jokes as much as I do. (I’m laughing right now, FYI).

2. If you can't handle my puns, we can't be friends.

3. Swipe right if you believe in aliens but not in pineapple on pizza.

4. All I want is someone to join me in my impromptu karaoke sessions.

5. Let's bond over our shared love of ‘90s music and conspiracy theories.

6. I'm fluent in movie quotes. Let’s see if you can keep up.

Sarcastic Tinder Bios

1. Looking for someone who won't judge my screen time... or my collection of mismatched socks.

2. If you're into bad puns and coffee shops, we'll get along just brew-tifully.

3. Swipe right if you're as frustrated with dating apps as I am, but let's pretend we're totally chill about this.

4. If you can't handle my dark sense of humor, you're probably too bright for me.

5. My hobbies include eating pasta and canceling plans. But mostly eating pasta.

6. I'm here to find someone who's down to pretend we met at Whole Foods while reaching for the last kombucha.

Tinder Bios Using Song Lyrics

1. I'm like a bird, I'll only swipe if you can make me laugh.

2. Hello, it's me. I was wondering if after all these swipes you'd like to meet IRL.

3. I'm just a small-town girl, living in a lonely world. Swipe right and take me on an adventure.

4. Cause you know I'm all about that swipe right, 'bout that swipe right, no lefts.

5. I've got sunshine on a cloudy day, and I'm hoping to find my sunshine here on this app.

6. I can't help falling in love with you... or your dog.

No matter which direction you decide to go in, these good Tinder bios will have your matches itching to know more. And if you don’t see the results you want right away, opt for something different. Remember, Leadingham says it’s a good idea to switch up your bio on the reg anyway.

Experts:

Amie Leadingham, certified relationship coach

This article was originally published on Dec. 30, 2021